You are rock. You aren't a destroyer, unfortunetly. Ice can destroy you, but ice being the calm peaceful element it is, he wouldn't try. You and ice go together, the way you feel very strongly of things. Fire doesn't destroy you, but can hurt you badly and destroy your friends and surroundings. You can harm fire, if you have enough of yourself. The world wouldn't exist without a lot of rock, and probably without you none of the other elements would of formed, therefor you are ancient and never die.